The Juicy Topic

     Okay, I'll come right out and say it: I've got a fairly high sex drive. Sure, there are days, I go without the pleasure of release, but like a Pavlovian-trained dog, it doesn't take much to make me salivate. In fact, I make myself "salivate" usually one to two times a day. And I could probably go a few more rounds in a day if I feel like it too. And while the thought of having as many sexual encounters as possible can seem fun or rewarding for me, I've kept my sexual escapades relatively low.

     In fact, I consider sex to be somewhat sacred. When you have sex, you're literally (and I'd argue figuratively) baring yourself to the other person, and showing them parts of you that only ~0.0001% of people you come in contact with have seen or will likely ever see (Unless, you like, have sex with EVERYONE you meet. In which case, how did you get here and why are you reading this?).

    In a way, sex is a way of "knowing" your partner in one of the most incredible, intimate ways out there. There's an energy to it like nothing else, and the experience must be shared to be truly consummated. This can even be seen in Biblical literature (Adam "knew" Eve, and she conceived a son.).

     So that's why I like to wait a bit more before diving-in, so to speak. And although, admittedly, my worse judgement would be to pounce on you from the first date, my better judgement tells me to understand the other person a bit more first. And how much more rewarding sex can be when you understand each other's vulnerabilities and weaknesses, yet you accept them as a complete being: mind, soul and body.

     And if you desire to experience a smorgasbord of human sexuality, more power to ya. You do you (and I can DEFINITELY appreciate the sentiment), but it's not for me, and I choose to accept the unique sufferings that come as a result of my decisions as I hope you will with your choices as well. Neither is technically "correct". Both have a unique set of pros and cons. Work them out for yourself, and if you find yourself like-minded, maybe hit me up. :)

Peace.